Each year at Passover, we celebrate our redemption from slavery to freedom. It is a moment of triumph for our people, but how do you observe a holiday like that when you don’t feel a sense of victory? How can you say “we were slaves, but now we are free” when hostages sit in captivity? How can you say “let all who are hungry come and eat” when Gaza is at risk of famine?
This year I imagine we in the comfort of America will have to do what so many of our ancestors have done over millennia: live with cognitive dissonance. The Spanish refugee putting together a Seder in North Africa in 1493 or the Warsaw Ghetto resident in the spring of 1942 had to find a way to connect with the Exodus story even as they were sitting in darkness.
Jews in America have always connected the Haggadah to the fight for liberation of our people, but in the past, it was our brethren in other places: the Jews of Europe during the Holocaust, Soviet Jewry in the 1970s, Ethiopian Jews in the 1980s. The difference this year is that the isolation, pain, and trauma Jews feel is worldwide. We are not worried about our people in some far-flung location. We are worried about them, and ourselves.
Fortunately, we have some excellent scholars and writers who can offer us solace and inspiration at our Seders. At a class I taught this week, called Preparing for Passover: The Meaning of Freedom, I offered a source sheet with some texts that speak to me. Leah Solomon argues that the proclamation “Let all who are hungry come and eat” reminds us that it is far too easy to only see our own pain. These words should encourage us to empathize with all who are suffering, a sentiment echoed by Rachel Goldberg, the mother of one of the hostages who rejects the “enticing and delicious world of hatred.”
David Arnow challenges us to think about the causes of our present situation, however difficult such self-reflection might be. The rabbis of the midrash noted that “particular failings of Jacob, Joseph, and his brothers set in motion a chain of events that ended in disaster for their descendants.” What were our mistakes and acts of omission and commission? What can we do to make a positive change for our people?
Rabbi Eliezer Diamond notes the bittersweet promise of the Haggadah, that “in every generation they have risen up to destroy us,” but that God “rescues us from their hand.” Redemption is a process, not a completed act. Sometimes we are in the middle, after the destruction but before the redemption. It is precisely in these moments that we need that most precious of commodities: hope.
Finally, Rabbi Gordon Tucker shares his disappointment at the fact that at the Seder each year we open the door for Elijiah, but no one shows up (unless you are my house where a mysterious figure in a sheet enters to drink some grape juice and scurry off). The hoped for messiah doesn’t come, and instead the traditional text reads: “Pour your wrath upon the nations that did not know You.” We are angry at the brokenness of the world, but Rabbi Tucker suggests that perhaps it is not God whose wrath should pour out, but ours. At the moment when Elijiah doesn’t come, we must let our anger out but then let it go. To feel rage is natural, but we cannot let it consume us.
I hope that some of these reflections provide opportunities for discussion and insight at your Seders. May this Passover bring freedom to those in chains, redemption to those who suffer, and peace to all in a time of war.